So I realized that all my posts since the baby were born were all pretty much the same just updated pictures so I haven't blogged because I didn't even want to read the same thing again. So here is a new topic that I have been strugglin with. Why in the world can I not get my weight loss together. I am miserable with all this extra baby weight on yet for some reason I can't seem to get my crap together. I go to the gym once, maybe twice a week, if that. Come on people, we all know that's just not going to cut it!! I can't find the time. I try to figure a time that I can take the baby with me but it seems like there is always something else that takes over my master plan. Then lets get into the food bit of the skinny plan. Being fat makes you want fat people food!! It's a horrible cycle. I have done it before with no problems. Lost weight like it was nobodys business but this time when it really would help my self esteem it's like I can't pull it together. UGH!!! It's so frustrating!! I just want to feel like me again!! To end this post I'll leave you with a smiley face. Here is my beautiful girl!
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First of all, just know that you are in the same boat as most any other mom, especially a new mom. Trying to find the balance between doing things for yourself and keeping up with a growing family is TOUGH. Don't beat yourself up, it won't get you any closer to your goal. The guilt will just make you miserable in the meantime!
I found that when I tried to go to the gym, it just didn't happen that often with kids. Life was too busy for me. So I started walking/running (mostly walking) on a treadmill at my parents for 30 minutes 5 times a week. I gave myself Sundays and one other day off just in case I had a lot going on. If a treadmill was not available I would take my kids for a walk in the stroller, they loved it and I felt good about meeting my goal.
Nothing brilliant, just a suggestion. I also have done a few of the PX90 videos (the cardio one is great) that does not require any gym equipment.
Good luck!
Holy crap, Meg.
That has got to be the most darling little witch I have ever seen! Did your mom make it?! I love it!
As for the weight loss thing--yeah, it's a tough one. I'm not sure I have any good answers. The only thing that has worked for me is having specific days and times that I go to the gym--so that you don't always have to think about when to go--it's just already a part of your schedule. Also, do you guys have the BYU channel? I just found a show called Total Body Workout that actually gave me a pretty good work out and I did it right in my family room. I think it is on around 9 or 9:30 am. Anyway...don't worry, Meg. You'll always be gorgeous.
She seriously is one of the cutest little girls I've ever seen!
Cutest witch costume!! You seem to happy - I love it! As far as exercise I walked and then ran with the baby in her stroller for a long time. It kind of killed two birds with one stone. Don't be too hard on yourself though!
Ok---I got a Wii Fit Plus last week! I'm getting it together at home! They don't allow strollers on the tracks here and it is too cold to step outside let alone run! Try that! I know it is a little costly but ebay was a huge help! I've lost about 7 pds already. Plus, it helps when you have family (in-laws) pictures coming up at Christmas time and you don't want a memory of your "post-partum" days! :) The weight from this 2nd baby has been harder to lose for me.Hope this helps. Plus, I'm staying away from sweets and past 9pm--not fun but starting to see results! I'm with ya!
I thought of you last night while I was contemplating my own weight loss ideas. I don't have the channel for the biggest loser but I started watching it online--on episode 3 of season 8. Man--what a motivator! Check it out! YOU (and I) can do it! keep me posted!
I agree, you'll always be gorgeous! Come on! A kid like that doesn't come from ugly people!
We try to eat whole grains, not a ton of meat, keep fruits and veggies available and cut up for snack time, and keep the sweets to a minimum but not totally excluded, rarely have soda to drink mostly just water and milk, and never skip a meal. And if you have a Dean to lift all day (my Dean is 40 lbs, yours is a little more than that so I don't recommend it) that is considered weight training in its own right. Good luck! I always think it's good to consider "how healthy am I" and forget about what the rest looks like or what the scale says. Focus on being healthy while you're getting used to being a mom, showing your daughter how to make smart choices with her food and have a positive attitude about your own body (they understand more than we think, and you'll blink and she will be in kindergarten copying everything you say and do), and your beauty & confidence will shine through like it always does. Go girl! You're great!
She is too cute to spook!
I am in the same boat Megan. I have lost all motivation after this third one. It's really hard. I'm just reading all of the other suggestions.
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